Posted in life, Yourself

Love Yourself First

Hi Readers, This time I am back with something New. Love Yourself First.

I felt that to be loved by others and loving someone else one should Love themselves first. It is very important for everyone to love themselves because it helps you to be loved by others more. We should be loved by our-self first than to be loved by someone else. Well before speaking more on this I would like you to understand meaning of Love first.

What is Love? Its a so called process of knowing and being attracted with someone and who makes you happy all time irrespective of what is going around.

Don’t you think what will happen if we stop knowing our-self and stop being attracted by our-self. We will be in a stage of being attracted by everyone and starts hating our-self. To avoid these kinds of situations we must start loving our-self first, we must talk to our-self for at-least 10 minutes a day and should look in mirror and praise our-self daily. Well it’s not all stupid activity to do, it’s a way to Love our-self.

When we love our-self we will be more happier and attractive and will be loved by others as well. Start loving yourself and see how things changes around you and become more beautiful. We are living in a century where we have mere time for our-self, we are so much busy with our life that we don’t have time for ourselves. Spend a little time in a day with the person you are associated since your birth. Love that person most in your life than someone else and rest will happen naturally.

At last I would just like to say,

Love is like Breath, you take in first and then gives out and the process goes on….

Please comment below and let me know your thoughts on this 🙂

Posted in life

Learning is a Journey, not a Destination.

You will not learn anything, if everything is perfect. Learning is never ending process and can only be achieved by making things perfect and not working with perfect things. As I mentioned earlier Learning is a never ending process however it’s a cycle that roles on and on and never stops. It’s a free motion and is not stopped by any friction. Its like space, you don’t how big it is until you start travelling. Again it’s not a checkpoint or goal you need to cross/achieve actually, we gain it over a period of time in completing our task or we can say in making things perfect.

Well honestly I don’t believe if there exists any perfect definition for Perfect. Everyone has their own, for instance this post may defines perfect for some people and may not for others. Well the word Perfect used in the Title is not related to any dictionary meaning, it is used to define our own’s.

The content of this post may not support the Title however the point I am try to make is sometimes we end-up with our work/thing because nothing is going good or Perfect and is not adding any value to our learning and here our learning stops. Learning is not something related to Perfection and going good. We must continue with our work/things and reach to the end despite of how it is adding value to our learning and here’s the learning process follows and goes on. We must go on making things Perfect and learning goes on….

The Path you travel is your Thought, the Marbles you get is pay of your Hard-work and the Journey you make is Learning.

Hope! we will meet again very soon, finding inspirations to write more, almost lost my confidence.

Posted in change, life

Why do we celebrate Women’s Day and not Men’s Day

Do you have answer for this? If Yes then please do mention it in the comment box below. If NOT then please read it once and let me know am I right or not…

Well I think all other 364 days are Men’s Day only that’s why we celebrate Women’s Day on 8 March, just to make them feel special. We share post about them, we make them happy that day, we protect them, we ensure that they have everything they desire at least for that day  and Bla Bla Bla!


Do you really think is that enough to make them feel special and let them realize that they exists and are safe, my foot. What about other 364 days, we torture them, we rape them, we make them feel that they are no stronger than men, we tell them to be in homes, we teach them dressing style and we do whatever that makes us to have upper hand over them.

Do you know, Why we don’t have Men’s Day? Even I don’t that however now I can assume that, ‘We don’t need a day to feel special, we don’t need  someone to speak on our independence, we don’t need someone to care about us, we don’t need someone to tell What should we wear?, we don’t need to realize that we still exists. Because we can do whatever we like and love to do everyday. We are Men and we celebrate Women’s Day.


Well I am not educated enough to teach you on what is right and what’s wrong? I just wanted to say that we (Men) don’t need a Men’s Day to feel special and so as Women. Don’t just celebrate Women’s Day to feel her special, Love them and protect them everyday and let them do whatever they want. If they can give birth and carry us for nine months in their belly than they don’t need someone to teach them.

Celebrate like every day is Men’s Day and Women’s Day.

Wish you all Happy W&M Day 🙂

Posted in life


This is the pic from my Childhood 🙂 which I got from old Photo Albums and makes me nostalgic and happy. How crazy, happy, fearless and carefree I was. I just dream if I could go back to those days and never grow up as of time stops forever and I know that every dream cannot come true in real world but we can feel those days again by being childish again.

Don’t kill the childish personality inside you. Let that child do whatever he wants to do. I know that we are adults and grownup now but we still love our childhood.

I know we cannot get those days back but

we can enjoy and feel those days again if we want to. Just that, we do not have to kill that child inside ourselves and let him rule our mind.

Sometimes just do something which you liked doing in your childhood like rolling on floor and demanding something or spending the whole day with our friends and talking rubbish all time or scrolling on our knees from one place to another or making the highest towers from our toys and etc.

Life is not always same as I see but a little change in attitude can change our mood and mind and we will see things tuning around.

Be crazy, be fearless, be carefree, be happy and be childish sometime.

Share your story about what you like doing in your childhood 🙂 and what thing makes your childhood memorable.
Posted in Inspirational, life

…. Inspires me

Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam inspires me.

There must be someone in everyone’s life who inspires them. Well when I talk about my source of inspiration he is non other than Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam and he is not only source of inspiration for me only but for uncomfortable many people on this planet. His whole life is a lesson for everyone, he proved that it doesn’t matter where you took birth your thoughts must be strong enough to achieve your dreams in life.

There are many source of inspirations present on this planet and have been inspiring all of us everyday, it can be a person, an object, a story, everything or anything beyond my head.

I will appreciate if you share your source of inspiration in the comment box below to spread the light of sun on this planet.

Read more about Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam here.

Posted in life

First Step

It’s all about taking First Step

Well it’s the unknown truth behind every success story and is true. We though have many people, reasons, stories for our success however the truth is that it’s all about starting that thing (or story) and taking the First Step because without starting we would never taste that success. Of-course Hard-work, Persistence, Dedication, Support and many things are reason for a success of any person but if he had not taken that First Step then he would have never reached the place where he is standing today.

Many a times we just don’t have that courage to take that First Step and we remain there only. It happens many a times with me or I say almost everyday. We have lots of fear in our mind because of which we are not able take the First Step. Fear of failing, society, next step etc. but if we think of one reason to success and take the First Step the whole story changes.

I would to say everyone and myself that we should not have fear of taking the First Step we must try and take it once at-least and maybe the story does not remains the same forever.